All these rages gotta go somewhere
1. Does being married makes you feel better than those who haven't?
2. Does being a mother makes you feel wiser than those who aren't?
1. You should. You're all sold and paid for, bitch. What are you whining for? You have someone to talk to, cry on, hug and never let go for, kiss, make love or all kind of war and every other activities imaginable by human mankind. No matter how weird / crazy you are, you already have someone who accept you. They promised to never let go of your hand.
Meanwhile, we, single girls, may be in a relationship so healthy and happily being drunk in love or whatsoever, but we haven't nailed it yet. There's always points of insecurities, all going to the same question : will we make it to the next step?
So yeah, married girls, you OUGHT to feel better than those who haven't.
2. No, you don't. I know being a mother means hard works, hard times, lots of ups and downs, etc., believe me : I've seen it all.
You may say : "You don't know how does it felt to be a mother until you're one." Which may be true, for those incredibly insensitive creatures. But for most women with sensible mind and heart, we could sympathise with you, dear mother. And it doesn't put you in a superior position to lecture us.
You think single life's easy? You think being single and unemployed easier than being a full-time mother / wife? Think again. You have goals to achieve to. You have a child to nurture, a husband to love, a home to manage. Your chore is your work, and the results are your payment. Being single AND unemployed means no goals, no chores, and of course no payment. For both sides, both mother and single gals, this may seemed bitter / schweeeett depends on HOW YOU SEE IT.
You said "It's easy being single, you're free to do whatever you want to do." YEA RITE. You know how I felt every-single-time someone shove me that sentence in my face? Like chewing a diamond-flavoured bubble gum. You become a mother by your own choice. Have some life-flavoured bubble gum as well.
Stop saying things like "I'm a mother now, I'm holier than thou". We all have different live, just chew whatever flavour you had in front of you.
Have fun, bitch.
Life's hard already, there's really no need for being a jerk.
by rr on Wednesday, May 20, 2015